Is there a “hope” for Kris and James’ marriage
Sunday, February 25th, 2007Election is already in the air, campaigns, left and right, candidates as headlines in the news. At the height of this election craze, a breaking news involving Kris Aquino and his basketball player husband, James Yap rocked the nation. The marriage of the two is said to be on the rock after the beauty receptionist came out revealing her alleged relationship with Yap.
If you can remember, a few years back, Kris Aquino admitted her relationship with Joey Marquez who was still married that time to Alma Moreno but later on broke up and even confessed that she had STD. Was isn’t it ironic that now it was Kris Aquino who is at “Alma’s shoe.”
Those who hate Kris, say it’s Karma, but for the general public, the sympathy is on Kris. I noticed that Kris changed a lot after she got married; maybe she already learned her lessons. She is discreet now when it comes to her personal life, and she already knows how to keep quiet maybe because she is really determined to raise a complete family. I was impressed on how she answered the issue on her Sunday talk show, The Buzz. Yes, she is a public figure but still it is her right not to divulge everything. She didn’t deny that something wrong is happening in their marriage, she didn’t mention any affair but instead generalized the problem. She said that forgiveness ruled over them. I agree with Kris, since I am a devout Catholic like her who believes on the sanctity of Marriage. Man is said to be weak when it comes to woman, you know what I mean. Even those who have been together for so long encounter this kind of problem because the husband still gets attracted in other women and fall into temptation, but I believe it’s really up to us women to say no when married guys approach us. Kris understood James, maybe she also has fault but she knew that her husband still loves him and that’s what matters. Kris forgave to save her marriage especially that she will give birth soon. If Hope (name of the “self-proclaimed” third party) is on the right mind, the moment she felt that James was “flirting” with her, she should have avoided and turned down the latter right there and then. Hope should not have came out in national TV because first, she is not a celebrity. Even if she was paid or she was persuaded by some talk show host she should have remained silent about the issue and showed a little respect to the couple. All her statements were contradicting. She said she never expected anything from James but now here she is, flaunting her immorality. She even said Kris should not be mad at her because she’s just a human who fell in love. Hello?! What does she expect? Kris would thank her after putting her pregnancy at risk? She should not ride the issue for the sake of fame. She should let the couple start anew and, before she gets kicked out from her job and before the whole nation remembers her as “kerida,” mistress and a home wrecker, she should stop appearing on TV and move on. A mistake could never be corrected with another mistake.
I am not a Kris Aquino fan, actually I hate her for her “I love myself” attitude. I was so against her when she had a relationship with Joey Marquez who was married and this doesn’t mean that James has no fault at all. He should really make up for his fault and be responsible. In other words, I just hate home wreckers.
I hope that Kris and James would really stand beside each other and not allow this trial to ruin their relationship. I know Kris believes in prayer so she should not stop. I hope that this issue will be put to an end before another showbiz marriage shatters.